Thursday, March 20, 2008
Why girls are emotional and guys tend to play it cool
These days we can find tons of self help books bout men n women n their differences n relationship probs n everything else from the way they behave to their sex lives :S ok eww haha :P some of these books are 'Men are from mars n Women r from venus' (great book btw :P seriously) n 'why men never listen n women cant read maps' (another great book,the guys loved it,guess wat section they went to ;) haha :P) but there isnt really a book for guys n girls,in their teens i mean.All these books whick are published are for people who are already married or in their 20s n 30s n r already in a serious relationship.So here is a post bout guys n girls n i hope this can b a best seller 1 day haha :P jk *ps this doesnt apply to all girls n guys but a majority of them so dun terasa n scream 'TATS NT HOW I ACT!!!'
1st of all:
Guys: like to look for fun,loves enjoyment and hot girls but doesnt want their gfs to be too sexy (for some reason)
Girls: like to look for love,but when looking for life n enjoyment,they r sometimes judged by guys (somehow :S) which is unfair,its nt lik girls cant hav fun or enjoy life right?
Relationships:Guys: If gf only,dun really care too much bout personality etc. But if potential wife,care lots but nvr lik them to be too sexy but show their sexiness only to the guy.
Girls: dont lik guys who fool around alot. Searches for potential husband-to-be everytime (however its useless at this age and should just hav fun) and sometimes get too serious bout it. Sometimes sluts tend to go for other girl's bf
Fashion sense and hairGuys: shirt,jeans n lots of hair gel/wax.Dont care if they already wear this b4 or nt,just as long as its comfortable n looks good n doesnt smell,its ok.
Girls: Different clothes everytime coz PEOPLE REMEMBER! :P eg short dress wif leggings, tee and jeans, tee and 3/4 pants, tee and baggy pants, skirts, dresses, tank top, baju kurongs, tudong/nt, long/short hair, let down or pony tail, curl, straight, wif clip/nt, fringe/nt etc...
Action:Guys: tends to act silly in front of other guys but acts cool around girls
Girls: emo shit :P but acts the same anywhere everytime among every1
Gangs:Guys: tend to stick together in 1 whole pack,regardless of race or religion
Girls: tend to hang out in their own clicks
Grudges n fights:Guys: tend to forget bout it after a while (what happens on the futsal field stays in the futsal field)
Girls: take it very personally. Hold grudges for years and tends to bitch bout the girl/guy.
How they spend time wif gf/bf:Guys: tends to separate gf wif the guys (peer pressure from all the teasing)
Girls: can spend time wif bf and friends together
Our Nature:
Guys: loves challenging any1 at anything
Girls: considers shopping a sport :P
Moods:
Guys: can laugh in a few seconds time no matter how moody they are
Girls: can take days before a smile is seen
How we think:
Guys: take things literally everytime,hates riddles and like things straight to the point
Girls: simple sentences can make a girl think soooooooooooooooooo far. Talks in riddles sometimes and expect all the guys to be mind readers.
How we like things to be:
Guys: likes things to be short and sweet
Girls: likes things fancy and colorful
What we think:
Guys: childish=childish
Girls: childish=cute -.-"
How attentive are we:Guys: seldom pay attention to little details
Girls: the small details are bigger than the big details
Who is easier to understand:
Guys: easier to understand
Girls: harder to understand,sometimes dont even understand wat they are talkin about themselves which is very common ( PMS!!!)
So there you go,just a few things about guys n girls in our teens.I hope yo enjoy reading this post and mayb even use some of this to help you understand better bout the opposite sex,if it doesnt,im sorry :P haha anyway this post can never happen without the help of Zaty and Ying,so i thank you both for this :)
